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Collaborating with the Enemy: How to Work with People You Don't Agree with or Like or Trust

Thursday, September 17, 2026

2:00 pm–3:00 pm ET

Sponsored by

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About the Event

In our increasingly polarized world, collaboration has become both more important and more difficult. To tackle the issues that matter most—from climate change to workplace conflict—we often must work with people we disagree with, dislike, or distrust. To do so, we need a fundamental shift in how we think about and approach collaboration. Drawing on over 30 years of global experience, Adam Kahane challenges the myth of harmonious teamwork and offers a revolutionary approach that embraces discord, experimentation, and genuine co-creation.

Collab-enemy-bookJoin us in community for this Learn Out Loud session, where Kahane will address:

  1. How to avoid “enemyfying” people we don’t trust
  2. The core challenges of collaborating across difference
  3. Conventional collaboration and “stretch collaboration”
  4. The “10 choices” we make as we collaborate across difference

Moderated by Jeanne Bell, Program Host, Leading Edge (NPQ)

 

 

This session will not be recorded to encourage open and honest discussion.

Please do not use AI note-takers, bots, or automated recording tools, and disable any such tools before joining. Any AI note-taker bots detected may be removed to help maintain a confidential and safe space for dialogue.

Featured Panelists

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Adam Kahane

Adam Kahane is a Director at Reos Partners, a global social impact company dedicated to supporting sustainable and equitable progress on humanity's most crucial challenges.

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Jeanne Bell

Program Host

Jeanne Bell, MNA is a Program Host for NPQ online events advancing critical conversations about equity-centered management and leadership.

Featured Panelists

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Shétu Rose

Chief Executive Officer, Diverge Finance Cooperative

Shétu Rose (she/her) is Chief Executive Officer at Diverge Finance Cooperative with over 20 years of financial management experience. Over the years she has led and supported administrative and strategic management teams for local and international organizations in the non-profit sector.

Prior to Diverge, Shétu was the VP of Finance and Operations at the Center for Economic Inclusion and the Director of Finance at AchieveMpls (now Achieve Twin Cities). She also has a wealth of international experience, having worked in Africa, Europe, and the Middle East.

She is a passionate advocate for equity and human rights and is committed to bringing about sustainable economic change for families and communities. She currently serves on the Board of Arise Community Credit Union and a founding board member of MUFEYA in Minnesota.

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Curtis Klotz

Chief Learning Officer, Diverge Finance Cooperative
As a presenter, Curtis Klotz, CPA, (he/him) shares business model strategies for nonprofits and a commitment to equity in financial leadership that have emerged from more than 40 years of direct work in nonprofit organizations. Prior to founding Diverge, Curt held roles as Director of Nonprofit Innovation at CLA, VP of Finance & CFO at Propel Nonprofits, and Director of Finance and Administration at Indian Law Resource Center. He was also a founding board member and past Chairperson of the Montana Nonprofit Association. Curt has contributed a number of articles to Nonprofit Quarterly, various CPA journals, and was the principal author of CLA’s Innovation in Nonprofit Finance blog.
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Jeanne Bell

Program Host, Leading Edge (NPQ)
Jeanne Bell, MNA directs NPQ‘s Advancing Practice program to advance critical conversations about nonprofit management and leadership.